A lot of the time you have to concern yourself with yourself.
I mean, you are the only important thing in your life …and by that I mean, if you didn’t take care of yourself then you’d never be able to offer anything to others. So in that sense, you have to come first. But there are times when you can get too much of yourself. Do you know what I mean? You get bogged down in minutia, preoccupied with the tedium of your day to day life and eventually, over time, lose track of the important things. By important things I suppose I’m referring to the bigger picture. You lose track of your role in the world – your place in the grand scheme of things. This can be bad.
It’s bad because when you find yourself living for yourself, you’re basically wasting your life. Really. At these times, to which we all occasionally slip, we require that certain ‘jolt’ that slaps things back into perspective. Something that reminds us of the small role we all play, giving us a chance to change ourselves and subsequently change the lives of those around us …and for the better.
It can be hard to find that jolt at times, especially in the internet …which not only thrives on anonymity, but finds itself playing a bigger and bigger role amongst all our lives – and if you’re reading this, then you must admit some portion of this statement to be true. It could be in many different forms – a reveling story? A Youtube video that touches a certain nerve? A silly cartoon that carries with it some profound statement? Some well expressed comments? Perhaps it’s a blog that you’ve stumbled upon, and the blogger presents you with insights you’ve never before fathomed?
When you find that rare jolt, be thankful for it. In the case of a blogger for instance, let them know how important their words are. Let them know that what they’ve done hasn’t fallen on deaf ears. Thank them for their courage. Let them know how important their expression is, and how useful it’s been to you at times. Support those things that play something meaningful in your life. Remind yourself that just because you can sit in the comfort of your own home and behind a screen that brings you so much different information, you’re not dismissed of that obligation to interact – and to, on occasion, say thank-you.
Words can be powerful things.